"What I learned in 40 years" was a title I thought about several years ago. I will be sharing some lessons I have learned through out my years..STARTING HERE:
What I learned?
The problem was me for repeating it because I had to realize that because I said something over and over again did not mean I was going to get my way. I realized that those I had to keep repeating myself to simply just did not want to do it. After stating something make sure that you ask what will be done about it. Find out if everyone agrees, how it will be done, etc. That way you can make any necessary changes so that the task can be carried out. Never assume someone wants to do something. Most likely they don't because if they did, then they would have been doing it all along. Communication can fix it along with negotiations. Most importantly, all parties have to agree.
Repeating the same thing over and over again can be very stressful because your basically telling someone something and after you have said it you expect a change or a different result from before.
What I learned?
The problem was me for repeating it because I had to realize that because I said something over and over again did not mean I was going to get my way. I realized that those I had to keep repeating myself to simply just did not want to do it. After stating something make sure that you ask what will be done about it. Find out if everyone agrees, how it will be done, etc. That way you can make any necessary changes so that the task can be carried out. Never assume someone wants to do something. Most likely they don't because if they did, then they would have been doing it all along. Communication can fix it along with negotiations. Most importantly, all parties have to agree.
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